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#Overfunctioning In Relationships Reel by @lorrisulpizio (verified account) - It's easy to fall in love in the beginning.

You're both showing up as your best selves-
more patient, more flexible, more accommodating.

But over ti
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It’s easy to fall in love in the beginning. You’re both showing up as your best selves— more patient, more flexible, more accommodating. But over time… your real self shows up. Your needs. Your triggers. Your bad days. Your limits. And this is where a lot of relationships struggle. Because now your partner has to decide— can I love this version of you too? That’s why the work is this: Start showing more of who you really are earlier. Speak up sooner. Let yourself have needs. Let them see your full range—not just your best moments. Because relationships that last aren’t built on perfection… They’re built on two people who are willing to be known and still choose each other. #lesbiancouple #lgbt #wlw #relationships #relationshipgoals
#Overfunctioning In Relationships Reel by @lorrisulpizio (verified account) - It would be easy for me to tell people what to do. And honestly, sometimes I want to. I find myself wanting to give advice, to say "this isn't working
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It would be easy for me to tell people what to do. And honestly, sometimes I want to. I find myself wanting to give advice, to say “this isn’t working” or “you deserve more.” But that’s not the work. Not on my part, and it’s actually not what anyone truly needs. The work is helping someone learn how to trust themselves. To start recognizing their own patterns, especially the ones that pull them back to what’s familiar even when it’s not good for them. To slow down enough to hear their own voice clearly—not the fear, not the habit, not the hope that things will change, but the deeper knowing underneath all of that. Because when it comes from you, it lands differently. You trust it. You act on it. It actually sticks. So this is me, gently saying to you… if something in you knows you deserve more, I want you to start trusting that voice. #lesbiancouple #lgbt #wlw #relationships #relationshipgoals
#Overfunctioning In Relationships Reel by @securequeerblueprint - You're not asking for too much.
You're asking the wrong person.

If someone has already shown you they don't care, chasing them won't suddenly make th
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You’re not asking for too much. You’re asking the wrong person. If someone has already shown you they don’t care, chasing them won’t suddenly make them capable of loving you properly. I know because I used to be the one waiting… hoping… going back. Secure love doesn’t require chasing. It starts with you choosing yourself first. If you’re ready to stop settling for crumbs, start here. #healthyrelationships #lesbianrelationships #anxiousattachment #relationshippatterns #wlw
#Overfunctioning In Relationships Reel by @lorrisulpizio (verified account) - This is one of those things I gently help my clients start to see.

You didn't just become someone who scans, anticipates, or feels everything so deep
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This is one of those things I gently help my clients start to see. You didn’t just become someone who scans, anticipates, or feels everything so deeply. You learned how to do that in a home where it actually mattered. Where paying attention to someone’s mood, their tone, their energy helped you feel a little more prepared, a little more in control… maybe even a little safer. And that part of you is still trying to take care of you, even in relationships where you’re not actually in danger. So if you recognize yourself in this, I don’t want you to judge it. I want you to get curious about it. Start noticing when it shows up, what your body feels, and the story your mind starts to tell. That awareness is where things begin to shift. You don’t have to change it all at once… just start by noticing. #lesbiancouple #lgbt #wlw #relationships #relationshipgoals
#Overfunctioning In Relationships Reel by @lorrisulpizio (verified account) - 🏳️‍🌈 One of the dynamics I see in a lot of lesbian relationships is that women are often conditioned to be accommodating and emotionally aware. Put
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🏳️‍🌈 One of the dynamics I see in a lot of lesbian relationships is that women are often conditioned to be accommodating and emotionally aware. Put two people like that together and the relationship can look very harmonious on the surface. But if both people are constantly adjusting, softening, and trying not to rock the boat, sometimes no one is fully expressing themselves. And over time that matters, because healthy relationships require two people who are willing to use their voice and let themselves be seen. #Igbt #wlw #lesbiancouple #wlwcouple #relationships
#Overfunctioning In Relationships Reel by @lesbian_couples_institute - As a lesbian couples therapist and relationship coach, I have learned what to do instead of people pleasing and avoiding conflict.

⚡️ speak up early
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As a lesbian couples therapist and relationship coach, I have learned what to do instead of people pleasing and avoiding conflict. ⚡️ speak up early ⚡️ step into courage and vulnerability. ⚡️ always be friendly in hard conversations. ⚡️ don’t blame, criticize, or accuse my partner. ⚡️ tell her explicitly that I’m not looking for her to fix or find a solution during this conversation ⚡️ let her know I want to hear her thoughts and feelings too. In another conversation. Tell me in the comments how this goes in your relationship? #wlwcouple #wlw #lesbiancouple #lesbian #lesbiansofinstagram
#Overfunctioning In Relationships Reel by @lorrisulpizio (verified account) - Some of you are exhausted in your relationship and you don't even realize why.

You're monitoring your tone.
You're softening your needs.
You're rehea
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Some of you are exhausted in your relationship and you don’t even realize why. You’re monitoring your tone. You’re softening your needs. You’re rehearsing conversations in your head before you say them. That’s not connection. That’s performance. When you feel secure, you don’t feel evaluated. You feel accepted. Love is supposed to feel like an exhale, not evaluation. If you stopped performing, would you still feel chosen? #lgbt #lesbiansoftiktok #lesbiancouple #wlw #couplegoals
#Overfunctioning In Relationships Reel by @lorrisulpizio (verified account) - 🏳️‍🌈 It may be time to seriously consider leaving if:

• Your emotional safety is compromised
• Your needs are consistently dismissed or belittled
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🏳️‍🌈 It may be time to seriously consider leaving if: • Your emotional safety is compromised • Your needs are consistently dismissed or belittled • You feel relief imagining life without her • You are lonely inside the relationship • There is contempt, eye-rolling, subtle disgust, or cruelty • You are the only one doing the work • You feel yourself shrinking instead of expanding • You have expressed what you need for kindness and nothing changes Lesbian relationships are deep and powerful. They are worth fighting for. But they are not meant to cost you your sense of self. Love should feel like growth, not erosion. #lgbt #lesbiancouple #wlw #relationships #personalgrowth
#Overfunctioning In Relationships Reel by @lorrisulpizio (verified account) - 🏳️‍🌈 Slowing down in lesbian relationships isn't just about physical space and time, It's about emotionally slowing down too.

Staying aware of your
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🏳️‍🌈 Slowing down in lesbian relationships isn’t just about physical space and time, It’s about emotionally slowing down too. Staying aware of your own feelings instead of immediately syncing with your partner’s. Not rushing to fix, merge, orregulate each other. Healthy relationships allow two people to stay connected while still having their own emotional center. You can love someone deeply and still stay rooted in yourself. #Igbt #wlw #lesbiancouple #relationships #couplegoals
#Overfunctioning In Relationships Reel by @lorrisulpizio (verified account) - One of the beautiful things about loving women is that we actually care about understanding each other.

We don't brush things under the rug.
We talk.
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One of the beautiful things about loving women is that we actually care about understanding each other. We don’t brush things under the rug. We talk. We process. We try to get it right. But sometimes two thoughtful people can talk themselves into complete exhaustion. At a certain point the most emotionally intelligent move is not better communication. It’s sleep. Nothing good happens when two tired nervous systems are trying to solve something at midnight. Sometimes the healthiest thing you can say is “I love you. Let’s pick this up tomorrow.” #lgbt #wlw #relationships #lesbiancouple #wlwcouple
#Overfunctioning In Relationships Reel by @securequeerblueprint - A boundary is not something you have to defend.

When you feel the need to over-explain, it usually comes from fear of being misunderstood, rejected,
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A boundary is not something you have to defend. When you feel the need to over-explain, it usually comes from fear of being misunderstood, rejected, or not chosen. But secure love doesn’t require you to justify your needs. The right person will respect your boundaries without making you feel guilty for having them. If you’re learning how to set boundaries and build healthier relationships, I created a free secure queer love blueprint to guide you. Save this as a reminder to choose self-respect over over-explaining. #healthyrelationships #lesbianrelationships #wlw #secureattachment #relationshippatterns
#Overfunctioning In Relationships Reel by @lesbian_couples_institute - Communication is not your biggest relationship problem.

Not feeling emotionally safe and secure probably is.

Are you in a lesbian relationship where
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Communication is not your biggest relationship problem. Not feeling emotionally safe and secure probably is. Are you in a lesbian relationship where you get triggered or feel a significant lack of security? Like you’re worried that your relationship might just end? If you and your partner are both ready to get the best lesbian couples help so that you can finally create a happy and secure relationship that lasts… DM me the word SAFE. #wlw #wlwcouple #lesbiancouple #lesbiansofinstagram

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