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CIi got a comment a little while ago on a video i posted about getting misgendered that said something along the lines of, "well if you experience gender dysphoria, shouldn't you see a doctor?"
honestly being autistic and getting vague comments like that really make my head go ๐คจ๐ง ๐ฅ but my guess is they meant something like, "๐๐ฒ๐น๐น ๐ถ๐ณ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ฒ๐
๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ ๐ด๐ฒ๐ป๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐ฑ๐๐๐ฝ๐ต๐ผ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฎ, ๐๐ต๐ผ๐๐น๐ฑ๐ป'๐ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐๐๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ ๐๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ป๐๐ถ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐ถ๐ป๐ด?"
it made me realize cis people really think all trans/nonbinary folk want to and therefore should physically "transition" in order to "feel better".
being genderfluid means i live on a spectrum constantly. some days i like my chest, and some days i wear a binder. some days i feel better in baggier clothes, and some days i like it tighter.
๐ถ ๐ฑ๐ผ๐ป'๐ ๐ป๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐๐ผ "๐๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ป๐๐ถ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป" ๐๐ผ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐ป๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ๐บ ๐๐ผ ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ธ ๐บ๐ ๐ด๐ฒ๐ป๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐ถ๐ ๐บ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ป๐ ๐๐ผ ๐ฏ๐ฒ.
some trans/nb decide to utilize hormones, surgeries, etc. to aid in eliminating their gender dysphoria, and that's for their own personal needs, NOT for societal expectations.
๐๐๐ฃ๐๐๐ง ๐๐ญ๐ฅ๐ก๐ค๐ง๐๐ฉ๐๐ค๐ฃ ๐๐จ ๐ ๐๐๐๐ช๐ฉ๐๐๐ช๐ก ๐ฉ๐๐๐ฃ๐. despite having struggled with gender dysphoria for some time, i'm learning new ways to express myself everyday! and i get to call shots here. no one else. ๐โจ
ps. someone's decision to transition is very personal and sacred to one's self and not something anyone should comment on or suggest. some nb/trans folk may be comfy enough to share their journey with others, but that does NOT give you the freedom to comment on ALL nb/trans folk! ๐ณ๏ธโโง๏ธ๐
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