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CANo contact can feel like the end.
There’s silence.
No messages.
No updates.
And your mind starts filling in the gaps.
“They’ve moved on.”
“They don’t want me.”
“I’ve lost them.”
So most people react in one of two ways.
They either panic and try to reach out…
or they stay in no contact constantly thinking about the loss.
But both reactions come from the same place.
The belief that the relationship is already over.
Here’s what most people don’t understand.
No contact doesn’t block reconnection.
What matters is the identity you’re operating from during it.
Your relationships reflect the beliefs you hold about yourself and about them.
This is what the Law of Assumption explains.
If your internal story is:
“They don’t want me.”
“They’re moving on.”
“I’ve lost them.”
You start showing up like someone who has already lost the relationship.
You overthink.
You monitor their behaviour.
You emotionally chase the outcome.
And the dynamic stays exactly where it was.
But when the story changes…
the reflection changes.
When your self-concept shifts from:
“I’ve lost them”
to
“I am chosen.”
When the story about them shifts from:
“They’re avoidant”
to
“They choose me. They want this.”
The dynamic begins to move.
Not because you forced it.
But because the identity creating the old pattern has changed.
I’ve seen this with clients again and again
People reconnect after weeks
After months
Not because they chased
But because they stopped operating from the version of themselves who believed the relationship was lost
The version of you who experiences secure love doesn’t see no contact as loss
They understand the dynamic can change
And relationships respond to that
That’s the shift
And it’s exactly what we change inside Create Your Secure Relationship
In 8 weeks we transform the anxious self-concept and relationship assumptions creating your patterns
So your relationships finally change
So that you can:
• reconnect with someone from the past
• shift a current dynamic
• or attract someone new
Comment CREATE & I’ll send you the link to join us now
#anxiousattachment #lawofassumption #avoidantattachment #lawofattraction
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ONreused my other reel because i didnt have time to draw a new one
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ANAnd yet, I’ll still try everyday…
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ANHow to take your power back with an avoidant ⬇️
→ Stop TALKING. Every therapist tells you to express your feelings, set the boundary, threaten to leave. It leaves you looking as desperate as a substitute teacher trying to get the class quiet. Avoidants don’t change when you’re vulnerable. They change when they suffer the consequences of disrespecting you.
→ Less chihuahua, more composure. Let your actions speak for you. They cross a line, let the consequences do the teaching. No warnings. No paragraph texts. No “we need to talk.”
→ Let them suffer early. The most loving thing you can do is enforce consequences before you’re too resentful to stay. Late consequences are what cook you every time.
→ Decenter them entirely. Your avoidant cannot be the most important thing in your life. The second they realize they control your mood, your day, your peace, they deactivate, self-sabotage, and take you for granted in ways you can’t even imagine. Booked. Busy. Emotionally diversified.
→ Evidence over words, every time. Stop listening to what they say. Watch what they actually respond to. They’ll tell you “just come to me,” but the second you do, they shut down. Pull back? Enforce a consequence? Suddenly that same nonchalant person is crawling on their hands and knees.
You don’t get your power back by being louder. You get it back by moving in silence.
✅Comment MASTERCLASS and I’ll DM you the link 🔗
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BEeverything’s going well. then suddenly: cold. distant. pulling away.
you think: “they’re done with me.”
but here’s the truth: avoidants often pull back RIGHT BEFORE they commit. here’s what it actually looks like:
they ghost for a few days → their nervous system is processing: “am i ready to need someone?”
they pick random fights → testing if you’ll stay when they’re difficult
they mention needing space → preparing themselves to give up independence
they go quiet after deep conversations → regulating after vulnerability
they bring up their ex or past trauma → processing old wounds before moving forward
they suddenly seem “off” → internally deciding if they can trust you long-term
here’s what anxious partners miss: avoidants don’t do smooth transitions. commitment feels like jumping off a cliff.
the withdrawal ISN’T rejection. it’s preparation.
they’re asking themselves: “can i do this? can i let someone in? will they hurt me?”
BUT here’s the part no one tells you: their process shouldn’t destroy you in the meantime.
you can understand their pattern without accepting weeks of silence. you can give them space without abandoning your needs.
understanding ≠ waiting forever while they figure it out.
that’s why i created the misreading love handbook—it shows you the difference between “they’re processing commitment” vs. “they’re just emotionally unavailable.”
you stop misreading their signals. you stop sacrificing yourself while they decide.
comment “FIX” or tap the link in my bio.
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@bettertogether.fix
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ANYou don’t heal by becoming completely independent.
You heal when it becomes safe to reattach without abandoning yourself.
Even something as simple as holding a trusted hand can reduce the brain’s threat response (Coan et al., 2006). You were never meant to do this alone.
#attachmemt #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment #relationships #lovelife
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