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These behaviors are common in men who will pull away later or have no clue how to build a healthy relationship.
If you had someone do these things for you and turn out amazing, I’m so happy for you, this post is not for you.
This is for the woman who is so fucking tired of giving her all to men who seem great at first, but then realize they “aren’t ready” or become toxic.
1. He initiates everything. This can signal of a lack of boundaries + awareness of how to build a healthy relationship.
In healthy dating, both people maintain their individual lives & schedules while getting to know each other OVER TIME. BOTH people initiate & prioritize each other, but no one abandons their personal life or does 100% of the effort. Look for balanced reciprocity.
2. He already acts like your boyfriend. These are often the guys who later realize he’s “not ready” just when you were getting attached. 🙁 He can have deep talks about spirituality or the universe, but not about himself. He bypasses true emotional intimacy with physical affection and closeness, and when the connection starts to feel real, he gets scared & runs.
3. He picks the restaurant, opens the door, orders for you, + pays …But you missed the part where he controlled every aspect 👀 This can be an early sign of imbalanced relationship dynamics that could be unhealthy or controlling.
**This doesn’t mean you can’t have a man spoil the sh*t out of you! But it’s important to understand the difference.
You’re either going to land yourself in an amazing romantic relationship or… with someone who is toxic and scary controlling.
The good news is: This is a learnable skillset! If you’ve had a guy come on strong like this, then pull away… Go easy on yourself 🩷
No one ever teaches us these nuanced red flags. BUT… Once you learn to spot them, you can’t unsee them. It’s really cool!!
❤️🔥 Ready to attract quality men and never miss a red flag again? I’m walking you through how to do exactly that in my next Free Dating Masterclass!
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