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1. They stay present in those conversations that once overwhelmed them, even while their body still feels activated. Being able to choose this kind of engagement rather than shutting down is a big sign of nervous system growth.
2. They explain their need for space instead of just disappearing. This can feel especially vulnerable when distance was once their main way of regulating for… probably ever.
3. They initiate contact in small but consistent ways. Grand gestures are often easier, but steady effort over time is much harder for avoidants and far more meaningful for the people receiving it.
4. They tolerate emotional discomfort instead of pulling away at the first sign of closeness. This only happens when their nervous system is learning to trust connection and understand that it doesn’t automatically equal a threat.
5. They come back after taking space instead of staying gone and they even tell you when they’ll be back 🥳 this shows growth but also a lot of awareness because they understand they need space and how long for.
6. They acknowledge your feelings, even if they don’t respond perfectly yet. Now this awareness is a real step toward emotional safety for everyone involved.
7. They’re more honest about their limits and capacity. This one is quite important because it shows major self awareness and humility.
There may be some stumbles and fumbles along the way, but these are strong signs of growth.
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