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SAWhy you are so self aware but still so stuck 👇🏼
Let’s see if this sounds like you.
You’ve become HIGHLY AWARE of:
🐻 your shadows/what you need to work on
🐻 how critical and judgmental you are towards yourself and that it’s not good for you
🐻 how you play small and limit yourself
And yet, being AWARE all of this information has done very little to actually change your behavior.
You have tried:
🦖 Just “loving” yourself
🦖 Cutting out “toxic” people from your life
🦖 Spiritual practices like yoga, breath work, or cold plunges
🦖 Reading all of the books it seems like you’re supposed to read
BUT…
You are STILL STUCK doing the same things you always have been and you’re not moving forward in life:
♦️You’re still playing small, and not taking bold action
♦️You’re still highly self critical and judgmental towards yourself
♦️You still let people ignore your boundaries
😔And generally your life still feels miserable. At least compared to how you know it can be.
Here’s what’s actually happening:
💡You are embodying SHAMEFUL awareness, instead of embodying LOVING awareness.
And the truth is, you are so used to doing this, that even as you navigate your healing journey, you’re doing so through shameful awareness.
☝🏼Notice if it’s coming up now. Notice if you are judging yourself for not being aware of this.
You cannot solve this from that place. You cannot solve this with more information. In fact, your shameful awareness THRIVES off information and uses it to keep you in a state of shame.
The only way to solve this is to ACTUALLY step outside of it into a place of loving awareness. Where you can see even the shameful awareness inside you and give it an energetic hug. Where you can gently chuckle at all the parts of you who are just doing their best to help you stay alive.
From there, you can let them know… they’re safe now. And they don’t have to do so much anymore.
I love you 🫶🏼
@saintsofflow
