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VAYou are not a victim.
You are just a human being who wants to connect.
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Let's show some compassion here.
Let's understand why people "choose" the victim role instead of standing their ground and being assertive.
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If you have been deprived of Empathy, understanding, comfort, support, protection in your whole life, it makes perfect sense why you choose to feel sorry for yourself in order to get all the aforementioned needs met by the people around you.
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What you need now is not someone judging you for being a victim, but a person who can show you how you can get these needs met through other, healthier ways; ways that don't sabotage other needs, such as the need for growth, autonomy and a safe sense of identity.
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Let's break the negative cycle with self-compassion and self-kindness ❤️
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