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THOnce, I was ready to do anything just to feel it…
I gave all of myself — my time, care, energy, body, boundaries.
I endured the cold, the silence, the indifference.
I justified what was tearing me apart inside.
I settled for less than I wanted, just to stay close.
I waited for messages. I adjusted. I begged.
I lived in constant anxiety — afraid he would leave, abandon, stop loving me.
And if he did leave — I blamed myself: “Maybe I just wasn’t good enough.”
Codependent love isn’t love. It’s hunger.
It’s the inner pain we try to cover with another person. But it never works.
No one can give you what you refuse to give yourself.
Wholeness — that’s where it all begins.
When you return to yourself. When you fill yourself from within and no longer cling to crumbs of attention.
When next to a man you are not needy — but real.
💌 Send me a DM with the word “feel”, and I’ll share a powerful body practice to start your return to yourself — to your worth, to love that doesn’t destroy, but expands you)
@thehaven.ly
