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BL1. They stay.
Not dramatically. Not with grand gestures. They just... keep showing up.
For an avoidant, staying IS the declaration. Their instinct when things get deep is to RUN. So if they’re still here, even if they’re quiet, even if they pull back sometimes that’s them fighting their entire nervous system to choose you.
What it looks like: They’re not texting paragraphs, but they text. They’re not planning romantic dates, but they make time. They’re not saying “I love you” every day, but they haven’t left.
What you hear: “They’re not that into me.”
What they’re saying: “I’m terrified but I’m choosing to stay anyway.”
2. They let you into their space.
Avoidants guard their independence like their life depends on it because emotionally, it does.
So when they let you into their routine, their home, their alone time? That’s them saying “I trust you” in the only language they know.
What it looks like: They invite you over even though they “need space.” They tell you about their day (even mundane stuff). They introduce you to their world slowly.
What you hear: “They’re barely making effort.”
What they’re saying: “I’m letting you see the parts of me I usually protect.”
3. They care in practical ways, not emotional ones.
Avoidants can’t always ACCESS their emotions, let alone express them. So they show love through ACTIONS fixing things, solving problems, making your life easier.
What it looks like: They remember you’re stressed and bring you food. They fix something in your apartment without being asked. They research that thing you mentioned once.
What you hear: “They’re being helpful but not romantic.”
What they’re saying: “I can’t say I love you, but I can show you I’m paying attention.”
@bloom.bymimi
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HENot everyone who “ghosts” you has avoidant attachment. 👻
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@healingwithjas
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NODo you agree? 👇
1. They don’t disappear when things get emotionally charged, even if you can feel their discomfort in the room. Staying engaged even if it’s tough and imperfect is still engagement.
2. They start choosing predictability over intensity. The contact might be quieter and less romanticised, but it’s steadier and more intentional than before.
3. They tell you when they need distance instead of creating it without explanation. Naming space is a big shift for someone who learned to cope alone.
4. They let conversations run a little longer instead of shutting them down early. Even a few extra minutes of presence can signal real effort
5. They return to conversations after cooling off rather than pretending nothing happened. Avoidance slowly gives way to repair.
6. They show more honesty about their limits, capacity, and timing. You’re no longer left guessing where you stand as often
These are some big steps for someone who has used pushing away as their way of coping their whole life.
While these are good signs of progress, it’s important to consider yourself first and do what’s best for you. Don’t negate the fact you may be hurting or that there’s disrespect.
If you’re wanting to put the work in and move past your attachment wounds, reach out and let’s have a conversation 🙌
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@nomadcounsellor
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DOAvoidant women are just constantly terrified tbh LOL
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@domo_vang
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KA⚠️Your love will NEVER change an avoidant persons behavior. Stop trying.
(these are true for avoidant men, too)
1️⃣ They can only feel love for you when you pull away.
💔 Distance is the only way love feels safe.
2️⃣ They fantasize about what they don’t have.
💔 If you are giving them love, they are secretly fantasizing about their unavailable ex.
3️⃣ Love feels like a threat.
💔 Being seen & receiving love has a strange effect on an avoidant woman’s body. There’s a sensation of “ick” or danger. She will instinctively push away even the sweetest love bc her heart has never been taken care of properly, so love doesn’t feel safe.
4️⃣ For an avoidant woman, putting effort in feels like work.
💔 Because of this, she will grow to resent you until she cuts you off one randomly one day.
5️⃣ The only way to keep them interested is to keep them addicted with hot/cold behavior.
💔 If you subscribe to this BS pattern, your self-confidence will plummet.
An avoidant woman’s bread crumbs will create an addiction that’s gaslighting you into believing you don’t even want the full loaf (even though you do).
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@kate__kali
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EMMore in the caption 👇
Avoidance feels safe in the moment.
But in the long run, it costs you the very thing you’re craving.
If you grew up learning that vulnerability was risk, or if you’ve been in relationships where being open backfired… Then silence can feel like self-protection.
But here’s what no one tells you:
- Avoidance doesn’t protect your relationship, it weakens it.
- Unspoken needs don’t disappear, they just turn into resentment.
- The fear of being “too much” often comes from never having been fully seen.
Secure connection is built through hard conversations. Through honest check-ins. Through saying the thing, even when your voice shakes.
The more you hide, the less loved you’ll feel, because they’re not connecting with you, they’re connecting with a filtered version.
This is your sign to choose connection over avoidance. Especially when it’s scary.
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@emotionalsam
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@mind_.sketch
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GAWhen they’re into you… until they’re not! #avoidantattachment
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@gabybalsells
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PSHave you ever had a gut feeling that somebody doesn’t like you, but you weren’t sure if you were just overthinking or not?
Psychology shows that these signs could indicate that someone doesn't like you:
Avoiding eye contact: They may look away frequently, which can indicate discomfort or a desire to avoid a deeper connection.
Body language: Their body, including their torso and feet, may consistently point away from you. They might also cross their arms or create physical barriers like placing objects between you.
Minimal and unenthusiastic responses: Conversations may be limited to one-word answers like "yeah" or "okay," and they may lack genuine enthusiasm.
They don't remember things about you: They may seem to have a poor memory for details you've shared, because they don't care enough to store the information.
Lack of effort in the relationship: You are always the one to initiate contact and conversations, and they don't invest the same energy in strengthening the connection.
Exclusion: They may talk around you in group settings, make inside jokes you're not privy to, or not introduce you to their other friends or family.
If these signs are present, it could be a sign that they just aren’t that into you.
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