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MARetroactive jealousy is about trying to find some special clean purity that will prevent a fear we want to control. It's just contamination OCD but around a partner's past. Instead of trying to become a time traveling janitor (for something that's not even in need of cleaning), it's way more useful to look at the insecurity and uncertainty we're trying to avoid. Fortunately, that's something we can work on in the present.
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