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GACycle breakers are fixers, not freeloaders.
Freeloader: “That’s just how our family is. Someone else will handle it.”
They didn’t start the fire, but they let it burn.
Fixer: “I didn’t start this, but it’s my responsibility now.”
They grab a bucket, pull people out, call for help, rebuild.
You didn’t cause the trauma or create the patterns. But you decided: the fire stops with me. My kids grow up in a different house.
When you see fire in your family (anger, addiction, neglect), it’s not just a problem. It’s your invitation.
Fixer or freeloader?
Choosing fixer? Drop “fire stops here.” This book is for you.
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