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CAWhen I first shared about separating - one of my videos went viral and the men went CRAZY on it. Saying I was destroying the nuclear family unit, that I was ‘tearing’ my family apart and ‘ruining’ my family…
But What causes the most disruption in a family is not whether or not the parents live within the same home it’s the energetic state of the family unit and the CONFLICT your kids feel.
Just having a family together but witnessing animosity, resentment, anger, unspoken thoughts feelings and emotions, tension etc is absorbed by our kids bodies - and you can VERY much eliminate all of this by sometimes choosing not to be in a romantic relationship with the parent of your children. For us it was a better fit to decide to coparent rather than try to stay in a romantic relationship ‘for the kids’.
And I still believe you can very much prioritize and keep the family unit together with the other parent of your kids… if you have a toxic coparenting relationship do what you can to see how you’re contributing and what you can shift to make it the most peaceful, neutral + loving relationship you can for your kiddos.
Full episode on how ‘Co-Parenting Doesn’t Have To Be Toxic’ now live on the Expand + Evolve Podcast with @carlypinchin
You can find it on Apple, Spotify + YouTube
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