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THA lot of people walk into mediation thinking the goal is to reach an agreement.
But if you’re dealing with a high-conflict ex or someone with narcissistic tendencies… that may not happen.
And honestly? You probably already know that.
So instead of seeing mediation as a failure if nothing gets resolved, shift your perspective.
Mediation can actually be one of the BEST places to gather intel.
High-conflict people love an audience. And mediation gives them one.
They will talk.
And talk.
And talk.
They’ll tell you:
• what they think they have on you
• what they plan to accuse you of
• what they want from the case
• what they think they deserve
• what they believe should happen with the kids
They’ll often reveal their entire strategy while trying to embarrass you in front of the mediator.
If you know, you know.
So instead of walking in thinking:
“I’m here to settle everything today.”
Walk in thinking:
“I’m here to listen, take notes, and gather information.”
And the best way to walk into mediation prepared is with a well-written parenting plan that already outlines exactly what you’re proposing.
Not vague ideas.
Not things you’re trying to remember in the moment.
A clear, detailed plan.
My team and I help parents create custom parenting plans that prepare them for mediation and protect their future with their kids.
If you want help building yours, comment ZEBRA and I’ll send you the next steps.
Know better. Be better.
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