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CIi got a comment a little while ago on a video i posted about getting misgendered that said something along the lines of, "well if you experience gender dysphoria, shouldn't you see a doctor?"
honestly being autistic and getting vague comments like that really make my head go 🤨🧠💥 but my guess is they meant something like, "𝘄𝗲𝗹𝗹 𝗶𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗴𝗲𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿 𝗱𝘆𝘀𝗽𝗵𝗼𝗿𝗶𝗮, 𝘀𝗵𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱𝗻'𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝘁𝗿𝗮𝗻𝘀𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴?"
it made me realize cis people really think all trans/nonbinary folk want to and therefore should physically "transition" in order to "feel better".
being genderfluid means i live on a spectrum constantly. some days i like my chest, and some days i wear a binder. some days i feel better in baggier clothes, and some days i like it tighter.
𝗶 𝗱𝗼𝗻'𝘁 𝗻𝗲𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗼 "𝘁𝗿𝗮𝗻𝘀𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻" 𝘁𝗼 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗺 𝘁𝗼 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗸 𝗺𝘆 𝗴𝗲𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿 𝗶𝘀 𝗺𝗲𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝗯𝗲.
some trans/nb decide to utilize hormones, surgeries, etc. to aid in eliminating their gender dysphoria, and that's for their own personal needs, NOT for societal expectations.
𝙜𝙚𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧 𝙚𝙭𝙥𝙡𝙤𝙧𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙞𝙨 𝙖 𝙗𝙚𝙖𝙪𝙩𝙞𝙛𝙪𝙡 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜. despite having struggled with gender dysphoria for some time, i'm learning new ways to express myself everyday! and i get to call shots here. no one else. 😌✨
ps. someone's decision to transition is very personal and sacred to one's self and not something anyone should comment on or suggest. some nb/trans folk may be comfy enough to share their journey with others, but that does NOT give you the freedom to comment on ALL nb/trans folk! 🏳️⚧️💕
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