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WEREPOST for those on their own this weekend, I understand how you feel! You’re not alone xx 🩷
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"He is in a better place now"-Although I understand the sentiment behind someone saying this, it doesn't make sense in our family's specific situation. I believe in the afterlife. I believe in Heaven, but my late husband, Ryan, died at the age of 35 and left me, a 4-year-old, and a newborn. No one can convince me that in the prime of his life when he had so much life left to live here on Earth with his family, that Heaven is a better place for him.
"My condolences"- Please say anything else. Say "I'm so sorry for your loss." Say "My thoughts and prayers." Say "I'm thinking of you and your family." Saying "my condolences" just seemed so impersonal for the situation.
"Let me know if you need anything"- After losing a spouse and going through trauma, I had no idea what I needed. Instead of putting the responsibility on the griever to let you know what they need, instead just show up, figure out unprompted what is needed, and bring things that you think will be helpful.
How are you?"- I always hated this question. In the early days of loss, this question forced me to lie. It forced me to say the things that made other people comfortable at the expense of my own truth. "My husband is dead. I'm terrible," is what I wanted to say but I would always smile and say "I'm OK. Thank you."
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Grief coach for widows. Helping widows lost in grief find joy and purpose after loss.
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JEIt’s funny the little things you get used too in life #wisdom #life #widowed
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WHAnother widow recently told me something that stopped me in my tracks:
“It feels like remarried widows only share the highlight reel.”
And honestly… she’s not wrong.
So, in the spirit of keeping it real, here’s what my husband Anthony and I have truly struggled with. Not to scare you—but to remind you, you’re not alone.
1. Parenting differences.
Blending families is not for the faint of heart. Anthony went from bachelor to father of two boys, fast. He’s more of a disciplinarian, I’m softer. And we’ve had to navigate a lot of hard conversations to learn how to parent as a team.
2. Grief communication gaps.
In the beginning, I expected Anthony to just know what I needed on hard grief days. But he couldn’t read my mind. Therapy helped me realize I had to learn how to communicate my needs clearly so he could show up for me the way he wanted to.
3. Widow dating grief is REAL.
The guilt. The comparison. The opinions. The drama. All of it hit me. I had to work through a lot of layers to even be ready to be a good partner. If you’re dating and struggling—you’re not doing it wrong. It’s just part of the journey.
4. Grieving secondary losses—together.
Not everyone will support your love story. We’ve faced rejection and hard family dynamics. We’ve had some painful but necessary conversations (including with a couples therapist) to decide what boundaries we need to protect our peace.
💬 If you’re remarried or repartnered, I’d love to hear:
What’s been the hardest part for you?
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WHWhen you lose someone you love, you don’t just lose them. You lose the safety you felt in the world. You lose your sense of stability. You lose control. Everything you thought was solid suddenly feels fragile and out of reach.
After my husband Ryan’s accident that took his life, I was left shattered. My heart broke with every breath. I could barely recognize myself. But I still needed something, anything, to hold on to. The only things I had left were the small rituals I had always done. Showering. Brushing my hair. Putting on makeup. Sitting in a nail salon when I could. These weren’t about vanity. They were about survival. They were the only reminders that I was still here, still human, when I felt like I had died right alongside him.
There is so much people don’t understand about grief. Looking put together on the outside didn’t mean I wasn’t broken on the inside. It meant I was doing the only thing I knew how to keep breathing through the unbearable. When your world has been ripped away, the smallest acts of care become lifelines. They tether you back to yourself in moments you feel like you are floating away.
That’s why judging how grief “looks” from the outside is so damaging. Grief doesn’t follow rules. It doesn’t make sense. It doesn’t always show up in tears. Sometimes it shows up in control. In rituals. In putting one shaky foot in front of the other and praying you’ll make it through the day.
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AB5 years since the world was locked down… Little did we know that was going to be the worst year of our lives ✨
You truly never know how life can change in a split second… Live life, be happy & make the most of everyday 🤍
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WHAfter my husband, Ryan, died at 35, my mind became a constant loop of questions, memories, and noise I couldn’t turn off. I didn’t understand it then, but it was my brain trying to make sense of the impossible.
I had thoughts that felt wild and intrusive.
What if I had made him stay home that day.
What if something happens to me while the boys are still young.
I can’t die. I have to make that doctor’s appointment.
He would have loved this. He’s missing everything.
Was he scared. Did he know I was there.
I can still see him in that hospital bed.
I can still hear the sound of my own screams waiting for help to arrive.
Those early months were chaos. Endless phone calls, insurance forms, medical bills, funeral decisions, parenting two little boys while barely holding myself together. I remember smiling once and instantly wondering if people thought I was crazy. Or feeling a split second of laughter and then a gut punch of guilt.
I used to think those thoughts meant I was falling apart. Now I know they were just part of the process. The brain trying to hold on to what the body already lost.
The thoughts still come sometimes, but they don’t control me anymore. They’re quieter now. Softer. They remind me how much I loved him, how much I’ve carried, and how far I’ve come. Healing didn’t mean forgetting him. It meant finding a way to keep living with him still here in everything I do.
If you’re in that fog of intrusive thoughts, just know you won’t always live inside them. There’s life waiting beyond the noise, and you deserve to reach it.
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WH4 whole years later...this moment replays in my mind.
If you’ve lost someone precious, you know the moment or the words that catapulted you into a different life. That sharp, pronounced, undeniable demarcation of your life before death had a seat at your table and then the after-when death and grief became your forever companion.
These were the words that propelled me unwillingly into my new life without my husband, Ryan. I remember knowing how dire the situation was and my gut knew that his heart had stopped. I didn’t want to hear the answer and yet I didn’t even think before the words were pouring out of my mouth to the policemen who had walked up and stood shoulder to shoulder with me as I looked forward to my lifeless husband in complete shock.
His answer solidified what I had known in my bones and my entire body trembled as if the movement would somehow ease the blow and change my new reality. But I didn’t have a choice. The veil is so thin between a life blissfully ignorant of pain and a life that is filled to the brim with it.
This moment in time is part of me, as are many other painful moments. I cannot throw them away but I’ve learned to carry them. I have learned to accept things that will never make sense and that are seemingly irreconcilable. Once you’ve experienced this type of loss, you can never go back to the life you had before or the person you were before and survival depends on getting to know these new and unwelcomed parts of yourself and tending to them.
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WHOn October 14, 2021, my late husband, Ryan, had a severe reaction to a bee sting, causing him to go into cardiac arrest and resulting in an anoxic brain injury (i.e. when the brain is deprived of oxygen).
Ryan went from someone so full of life to someone who couldn't do anything. He was in a coma and then in a minimally conscious or vegetative state. Most people don’t understand how painful it is to watch someone who was a fully functioning, loving, independent human become a shell of themselves.
Brain injuries also affect the body. People with brain injuries develop conjectures in their limbs that are painful, as well as bed sores. They lose muscle mass. They are at risk for pneumonia, blood clots, and other infections. Modern medicine can keep these individuals alive for years if not decades.
When we were told that a meaningful life for Ryan was impossible, we asked “What would hospice look like?” I had no idea that in Pennsylvania where death with dignity is not available, hospice for those in vegetative states means withdrawing nutrition and hydration.
Ryan was on hospice for 22 days, and his artificial nutrition and hydration were withdrawn on the 10th day. He was kept comfortable by a copious amount of pain medication. I will not lie, it was a terrible thing to watch. This experience made me so much more aware of the importance of having other options for death when an individual is terminal and suffering.
In sharing, I hope to bring awareness to an experience that is misunderstood.
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I understand that for those that have not lost a spouse, it may be hard to comprehend why a widow may decide to take off her wedding rings soon after her husband's death. They are a symbol of love, commitment, and a sacred union a couple makes to each other on their wedding day after all.
And that's the exact reason I took my rings off very soon after my late husband, Ryan, died.
My rings symbolized our life and love together while Ryan was alive-when we were both able to carry out the commitments we had made to each other on October 12, 2013. As soon as he died, our vows "till death to us part" had been fulfilled. With Ryan's last breath, I had transitioned from a wife to a widow. That abrupt dethroning of sorts was jarring. The rings on my finger a beautiful but tragic reminder to myself and the world of what had been lost and what could never be again. The rings didn't bring me comfort or a connection to Ryan, but rather they made me feel sick because what the rings symbolized what was no longer my reality.
It had nothing to do with my love for Ryan. How much I missed him or grieved for him and our life together. It just didn't make sense or "fit" with my new life moving forward and it was less painful to see my ring finger bear than with the rings Ryan had pledged his love to me with.
Bottom line. Do what's right for you and your grief.
When and why did you take off your wedding rings? 💍
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WHI became a widow at 35 with a baby and a toddler. I had to figure out how to live without my best friend. The void felt impossible to fill. Looking back at the past filled me with guilt. Looking into the future overwhelmed me.
So I took it day by day. I clung to tiny glimpses of life coming back until, slowly, I rebuilt. And to my surprise, I built a life I love after unimaginable loss.
I thought I’d be met with cheers and “I’m proud of you” moments. But instead, I was met with silence. Some people pulled away. Some even left me out of events I should have been part of. It felt like I was doing something wrong when I was just doing the best I could.
I wondered: what was it about my joy that made others so uncomfortable?
Here’s what I discovered. When a widow begins to smile again or dream about the future, it unsettles people. It challenges their ideas of what grief “should” look like. It forces them to face their own fears and pain. It reminds them of how fragile life really is. It’s a mirror to the work they still have to do. And sometimes, your moving forward is a harsh reminder that you’re moving forward without the person you both love.
Many expect grief to look like forever sadness. They don’t understand that grief can live alongside joy, love, and growth. That we can carry heartbreak and hope together.
Finding joy after loss is not a betrayal. And if you are a widow daring to laugh, live, or love again, don’t shrink to make others comfortable.
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WHThis one is tender to share. It is real and raw and it brings up the pain and quiet losses I have been carrying for a while. The details do not matter and I will always protect the privacy of others, but I want to talk about this because it is something many widows experience yet few speak about.
When your husband dies, you often become the place where everyone else’s grief lands. It makes sense in a way because you were closest to him. You were his person, the one he trusted, the one he chose. Sometimes this draws people closer, but often it does the opposite. Instead of being comfort, you become the most painful reminder of what they lost.
You are still here.
You raise your children.
You witness milestones.
You may fall in love again.
You keep living while their loved one cannot.
That truth can make you a magnet for anger and sorrow. Every step forward in your life can feel like a reminder of what they no longer have. I have compassion for that pain, but many things can be true at once.
I cannot be the outlet for another person’s grief. Sometimes that means loving people from a distance and praying they find peace. It is not that they hate who I am, it is that I am here and he is not.
From the beginning I wanted to share the parts of grief no one talks about. This is one of them. If you are a widow and have felt this too, know you are not alone and you have done nothing wrong.
Grief is a beast, and each of us must tame our own.
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Grief coach for widows. Helping widows lost in grief find joy and purpose after loss.
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