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NACodependency hurts 🥲 Spoken by a recovering codependent! Follow @nathaliachristensen for more 🩷
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MAFix codependency using this 5-step method:
If you feel irritated, guilty or have negative thoughts, answer these questions:
1) What upset me?
Example: ”I’m upset that they don’t want to spend time with me.”
2) How did that make me feel?
Example: “It makes me feel like I’m unimportant, like they secretly hate being around me.”
3) What do THEY need to feel seen and safe? What do I need to feel seen and safe?
Example: “They need to be seen by their friends, and to feel that our relationship is safe” and “I need reassurance and quality time.”
4) Now share steps 1-3 with your partner.
Example: "I felt upset and was passive-aggressive the other night when you hung out with your friends. I was worried that you might not enjoy spending time with me, but I understand that you need time with your friends too. I just need some reassurance from you sometimes, and I'd like to spend some quality time with you as well. Can we work on this together?"
5) Collaborate on strategies to be able to come toward each other with this information!
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@matthiasjbarker
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RACodependency is when, instead of regulating my own mood, I try to regulate your behavior. I will find no serenity until I admit that the only person I can control is myself.
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@rabbi_shais_taub
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QUIT’S NOT YOUR RESPONSIBILITY
to manage the emotions of another adult.
Codependence says : “I’m not okay if you’re not okay. So if you’re not okay, I need to fix it for both of us.”
The other person’s distress feels like a threat to our own wellbeing and a threat to our connection with them —> so we take over
Be supportive. Be kind. Be present.
But allow them to rely on their own resilience and trust them to manage their own big feelings
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@quinlanwalther
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MICodependency VS Interdependency, My favorite break down for clients 🫶🏽
@mikahjonesss
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VAAt it’s core, Codependency stems from a lack of Self.
And so it doesn’t matter actually how it manifests for you in behavior. The recovery is all linked to building a solid sense of and relationship to that capital “S” Self.
So every time you listen to yourself and act on what you truly want, desire, feel, need - you’re telling that small muted and greyed out sense of self that you are there to listen, you are there to learn, that you trust you, and that you’ve got you.
And every time you do that, that quiet voice gets louder. That connection gets stronger. That inner knowing - ie the relationship to that sense of Self - grows.
@vanessasbennett
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THThe most important things to know + practice if you’re healing from codependency patterns is:
1. Boundary setting (even when you feel guilty)
2. You aren’t responsible for other people’s emotions. Your role isn’t to manage other people’s issues.
3. Your needs matter: learn to understand them, meet them, + practice (when you’re ready) communicating them to the people you love #selfhealers
@the.holistic.psychologist
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UPTHE CAGE OF CODEPENDENCY (and how to get out!) #Manifestation #LawOfAttraction #Magic thank you Salata for inspiring this video! ❤️ u Sheri!
@upspiral.life
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KN𝐏𝐄𝐑𝐒𝐎𝐍𝐀𝐋 𝐆𝐑𝐎𝐖𝐓𝐇 𝐈𝐒 𝐊𝐄𝐘🔑
Understanding the difference between interdependence and codependence is crucial for navigating relationships healthily.
When you’re in an 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐝𝐞𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐭 relationship, you and your spouse mutually rely on each other in a way that is 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐭𝐡𝐲, supportive, and empowering . It means you can count on each other for support, but you also maintain your own identity, 𝐟𝐫𝐞𝐞𝐝𝐨𝐦, and 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 strength.
You’re capable of standing on your own but choose to stand 𝐭𝐨𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 because it enriches 𝐛𝐨𝐭𝐡 of your 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐬. This balance ensures that both individuals 𝐆𝐑𝐎𝐖🌱, both as a 𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐩𝐥𝐞 and 𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐝𝐮𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲.
In contrast, being in a 𝐜𝐨𝐝𝐞𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐭 relationship means that 𝐨𝐧𝐞 or 𝐛𝐨𝐭𝐡 of you feel an 𝐞𝐱𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐯𝐞 emotional or 𝐩𝐬𝐲𝐜𝐡𝐨𝐥𝐨𝐠𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐥 reliance on the other. This kind of relationship often involves 𝐬𝐚𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐟𝐢𝐜𝐢𝐧𝐠 your own 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝𝐬 or 𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐭𝐲 to meet the needs of the other person.
𝐂𝐨𝐝𝐞𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐭 is characterized by a lack of boundaries, where your sense of purpose and 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐡 becomes deeply 𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐥𝐞𝐝 with the well-being of your partner, often to the 𝐝𝐞𝐭𝐫𝐢𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 of your own 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐭𝐡, autonomy, and sometimes even 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭.
Simply put, interdependence is about 𝐭𝐡𝐫𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 and 𝐚𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐭, it’s about promoting personal 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐰𝐭𝐡🌱, and 𝐬𝐮𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 each other’s independence. Codependence, on the other hand, is about needing each other or your spouse needing you to such an extent that it hinders your 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐰𝐭𝐡 🌱and independence, often leading to an 𝐮𝐧𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐭𝐡𝐲 dynamic in the marriage. One always wins while the other loses.
Recognizing the difference can help you build a more healthy and successful marriage.
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THThey push people away… but deep down, they crave connection.
That’s the reality of Avoidant Attachment Style.
It’s not about not caring — it’s about fearing vulnerability.
People with avoidant attachment often:
– Struggle to express emotions
– Avoid closeness in relationships
– Feel uncomfortable depending on others
– Seem distant or “cold” even when they care deeply
💡 The truth? These are survival strategies developed in childhood — not flaws.
Healing begins with awareness, and attachment styles *can* change.
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CODEPENDENCY 101
It’s not your responsibility to manage the emotions, stressors, or behaviors of others — codependency says otherwise.
Full breakdown in this week’s episode:
- what codependency is
- how to recognize it
- how to heal it
Available now inside @thethirdflr
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@quinlanwalther
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HECodependent people feel responsible for everyone's emotions because their brain learned to interpret other people's feelings as direct information about their own worth and safety.
When someone appears upset, angry, or disappointed,
your nervous system immediately treats it as evidence that you're failing at what feels like your most crucial job: keeping everyone emotionally stable.
You monitor everyone's emotional state like a security guard watching surveillance cameras,
and when someone seems off,
your anxiety spikes as you start calculating what you did wrong and how you can restore their emotional equilibrium.
Their feelings become your personal emergency that must be resolved immediately.
The most disorienting aspect of codependency is the complete erosion of emotional boundaries between yourself and others.
You literally cannot distinguish where your feelings end and theirs begin,
creating a psychological fusion where their sadness becomes your sadness,
their anger becomes your panic,
and their disappointment becomes your shame.
This emotional enmeshment means you're constantly flooded with feelings that don't actually belong to you,
leaving you exhausted and confused about your own authentic emotional experience.
If you grew up as the family's emotional regulator—managing a parent's moods or mediating conflicts—your brain learned that emotional caretaking equals love and that others' emotional states determine your safety.
This childhood programming created a nervous system that can't relax unless everyone around you is happy,
making adult relationships feel like constant emotional labor rather than mutual support.
Learning that other people's emotions are information about their experience, not instructions for your behavior,
is essential for reclaiming your emotional energy.
You can care about someone's feelings without being responsible for managing them,
and your emotional energy belongs to you first.
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