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HOAssertive doesn’t mean rude. It means saying what you mean without shrinking or overexplaining 🤝
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JE3 quick tips to boost assertiveness #assertive #assertiveness #confidence #communicationskills
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JALet’s clear something up…
Being assertive is not the same as being aggressive.
Assertiveness is:
– Speaking up with clarity
– Addressing issues directly
– Setting boundaries without apology
– Asking questions that move things forward
Aggressiveness is:
– Disrespect
– Intimidation
– Attacking people instead of addressing problems
The problem?
When you become assertive, you start disrupting systems that rely on silence, avoidance, or people “just dealing with it.”
So what happens?
You raise a concern…
You point out a gap…
You question a decision…
And instead of engaging with what you said, some people default to labeling your delivery as “aggressive.”
Not because it is.
But because it’s uncomfortable.
Because now they have to:
– Explain decisions
– Defend processes
– Confront inefficiencies
– Or admit something was missed
And that’s where the shift happens.
People who were fine when you stayed quiet may suddenly have a problem when you start speaking up.
Not because your tone changed.
But because your presence did.
Assertiveness requires:
– Self-respect
– Awareness
– The willingness to be misunderstood
Aggressiveness requires none of that—it just creates conflict.
So if you’re:
✔️ Communicating respectfully
✔️ Staying solution-oriented
✔️ Addressing issues directly
Then what you’re doing isn’t aggression.
It’s clarity.
And clarity has a way of exposing what silence used to cover.
Not everyone will like that.
But that doesn’t make it wrong.
It just means you’re no longer participating in avoidance.
And for some people… that’s the first time they’ve had to deal with it.
PS: I teach on topics like this in the No Excuse Today Community and I invite you to come be apart of the community. Visit www.noexcusetoday.com for more info.
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ELThe assertive /confrontational personality.
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RA5 signs you may not be assertive enough🧡🤖 follow @raquel.olsson for more insight! Save and share with a friend you care about🫶🏼
✨Assertiveness: an interpersonal skill in which you demonstrate the healthy confidence to stand up for yourself while still respecting the rights of others. (Inc. magazine)
Assertiveness sits healthily between the ends of a certain spectrum of communication style - on one end is passiveness, on the other is aggressiveness. Being too passive can build resentment, sell yourself short, and subject yourself to being taken for granted.
Here’s an example from Healthline…if an acquaintance asks for a favor, and you don’t wanna do it…do you say:
“Sure! I’d love to help!” (Passive)
“You never do anything for yourself.” (Aggressive)
“I’m not going to be able to help this time.” (Assertive)
Some quick tips to be more assertive:
- understand this deeply: you are worthy.
- identify your boundaries
- practice saying no
- remove the burden of worrying about rejection
- take things less personally
- put yourself first
- be selective about who you spend energy on
- have the audacity to go for what you want, ask for what you want…say fuggit!
- be able to laugh at yourself
Lmk where you think you stand on this spectrum. Or let me know ways to be more assertive.
I hope you remember to live life assertively and find your voice, rid yourself of shame, and step into your full sense of inherent self-worth.🙌🏼 It is a journey and that’s ok.🥂🛸
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QUApproximately 49% of Americans are people pleasers (passive). In a world where too many will suffer in silence, I’m raising Brayden to speak up, even with me. I’m not in control of him. I’m coaching, teaching, guiding, and loving.
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IMBe assertive not passive !! Once you take the disrespect they would do it again !!
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VVYou can learn to be assertive.
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Try this tip out next time you are asked to do something.
Small changes like asking these questions can boost your assertiveness!
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JEslight difference, but can make all the difference. #assertive #communication #confidence
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ELSTAND UP FOR YOURSELF!
When you know how to be be assertive, it reduces confusion, lowers stress and sets clear expectations.
Assertiveness is not about being agressive or condescending.
It’s about coping skills that allow your opinion to be heard and understood.
Yes it’s scary to be assertive.
Yea people may be taken aback by your assertiveness.
But if you have the courage to be assertive you will build stronger relationships, inspire trust and command respect.
Are you struggling to be assertive?
Let me know in the comments.
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